Marital Strife

Yes my wife and I are having issues. I need you guys to help her understand something. I try to be a good spouse and help her clean. But she says that cleaning out the fridge is not the same as cleaning the house.

What is wrong with this woman????>>>

CIAK Said: To keep this going awhile longer . What would you think is the number one betrayal in a marriage. The one that does the most and lasting damage. I have seen it many times in new relationships. It is humiliating the other spouse in public . That is the beginning of the end if it isnt delt with. It ruins dignity in the individual and destroys the relationship. If your brave enough ask your spouse if you humiliate them and how it makes them feel about you. It may save a marriage A short story

A man was sitting on the edge of the bed, observing his wife, looking at herself in the mirror. Since her birthday was not far off he asked what shed like to have for her Birthday. Id like to be six again, she replied, still looking in the mirror. On the morning of her Birthday, he arose early, made her a nice bigbowl of Lucky Charms, and then took her to Six Flags theme park. What a day! He put her on every ride in the park; the Death Slide, the Wall of Fear, the Screaming Monster Roller Coaster, everything there was. Five hours later they staggered out of the theme par Her head was reeling and her stomach felt upside down. He then took her to a McDonalds where he ordered her a Happy Meal with extra fries and a chocolate shake. Then it was off to a movie, popcorn, a soda pop, and her favorite candy, M&Ms. What a fabulous adventure! Finally she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed exhausted. He leaned over his wife with a big smile and lovingly asked, Well Dear, what was it like being six again?

Her eyes slowly opened and her expression suddenlychanged. I meant my dress size, you retard!!!

The moral of the story: Even when a man is listening, he is gonna get it wrong! :laugh: :laugh: ;) ;)

What about telling stupid stories in public places while your wife stands there shaking her head and checking her purse for your meds? :dry: :dry:

JET>>>

It did not bother me>>>

Twill, OK

Hello Mrs. Twill, Oh Lordy I hope the words come out right.

Twill, do not think for a moment your lady doesn't know what you do for family and yourself. We get it and know it.

Here comes the seperation: Do you understand and know every detail of what the lady does for the family and you. You are both partners working in different catagories, both equal but different, she can't do your job and you can not do hers. Thus the wonderful combination of male & female. We both know instinctifully what needs to be done and usually we all take care of business. Unknowingly you both rely on each other to do the right thing. That is called trust.

NOW we are talking about trivial BS.

If she is asking? May be more to it, subtle but a sign ... not the fridge, trust me. Do not under estimate the motives of a WOMEN. Little means a lot.

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Patty Cakes Said: Oh Twill, love to comment but ..........just get myself in trouble.

Won't bother me none>>>

Practice this...yes dear, yes dear. Then, in the mornings, she can do what she wants to do and then in the afternoons, you can do what she wants you to do! very simple really!>>>

Terry...........Green & Fuzzy is Wednesday in my house. I'm not alone. Thank You. PC>>>

Oh Twill, love to comment but ..........just get myself in trouble. >>>

Good story Chuck. I love those Lucky Charms! A fella could get rich if he just sold the marshmallows. Yellow Moons, Green Hearts, etc. etc.>>>

To keep this going awhile longer . What would you think is the number one betrayal in a marriage. The one that does the most and lasting damage. I have seen it many times in new relationships. It is humiliating the other spouse in public . That is the beginning of the end if it isn't delt with. It ruins dignity in the individual and destroys the relationship. If your brave enough ask your spouse if you humiliate them and how it makes them feel about you. It may save a marriage A short story

A man was sitting on the edge of the bed, observing his wife, looking at herself in the mirror. Since her birthday was not far off he asked what she'd like to have for her Birthday. 'I'd like to be six again', she replied, still looking in the mirror. On the morning of her Birthday, he arose early, made her a nice bigbowl of Lucky Charms, and then took her to Six Flags theme park. What a day! He put her on every ride in the park; the Death Slide, the Wall of Fear, the Screaming Monster Roller Coaster, everything there was. Five hours later they staggered out of the theme par Her head was reeling and her stomach felt upside down. He then took her to a McDonald's where he ordered her a Happy Meal with extra fries and a chocolate shake. Then it was off to a movie, popcorn, a soda pop, and her favorite candy, M&M's. What a fabulous adventure! Finally she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed exhausted. He leaned over his wife with a big smile and lovingly asked, 'Well Dear, what was it like being six again?'

Her eyes slowly opened and her expression suddenlychanged. 'I meant my dress size, you retard!!!

The moral of the story: Even when a man is listening, he is gonna get it wrong! :laugh: :laugh: ;) ;)>>>

Well Mike, it all started w/ some comments made to my MIL. Rather than sit and back and take it, I let them all know, that I do indeed help clean :dry:>>>

I got the joke Twill. I was just checking to see if there was something deeper.>>>

Mike H Said: Is this just a funny for late Tuesday night, or are issues real, and deeper than the fridge?

mike..... I think everyone got it but you :laugh:>>>

On the serious side http://www.marriagebuilders.com/>>>

Our trash man comes on Wednesday mornings so I clean out the fridge every Tuesday night.

Around my house, Tuesdays are called "Green & Fuzzy Night". As I am cleaning out the fridge, if it is not green and fuzzy, that is what is for dinner!>>>

cleaning out the fridge, one popsicle at a time or one beer at a time is much different, and for you to have to do that for her....its almost saintly and borders on being a martyr.>>>